When A Death Occurs
When a death happens, the order in which things need to be done often depends on the location where the death occurred. One thing you should always take into account is your heightened emotional state upon the death of your loved one. That's why we suggest that you ask a friend or stable family member for help so you can think more clearly.
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At Home or at Work
When a death happens in the workplace or at home, a member of the family or a co-worker should contact emergency personnel immediately and the person't physician if she or he was under a doctor's care. If the death occurs at home with friends or family present, and the person is under a doctor's care, the family will want to call us directly.
However, if a death occurs in a home and no one is at the time of death, the police will also need to be notified and respond to the residence before the deceased can be removed from their home.
If in any case you are not sure of who to notify, you may call Gering Chapel at (308) 436-5038.
While Under Supervised Care
When a death occurs in a care facility, such as a nursing home or hospital, the staff will notify you and the authorities. If the name of the funeral home has been left, they will notify us at the time of the death. The funeral director will contact you as soon as possible to help you proceed.
If a loved one was in the care of a hospice program, a representative from hospice will give loved ones instructions and procedures to follow. The medical examiner will be notified by hospice. Then hospice will contact the funeral home.
Widening the Circle
Our staff members are experts who can provide much of the information you need, emotional support and compassion.
While you may ask the director any questions at this time, you will be able to discuss the arrangements in detail later when you meet in person. During this initial call, the funeral director will gather information to be able to transport your loved one to the funeral home.
The funeral director may ask you several questions, including whether your loved one made any pre-arrangements. The director will also schedule a date and time for you to meet at the funeral home and will let you know what you should bring with you. Others you will need to call are:
- Family members and friends
- Clergy or other spiritual advisors
Those Important Questions
If there is no plan in place, there are several other questions that you may have to answer in regards to the death of your loved one:
- Do I have to have embalming?
- Do I need to purchase a casket?
- What about cemetery arrangements?
- Does the family have to engage the services of a minister?
- What type of service should we have?
By contacting our staff, we'll be able to help answer your questions and assist in making the appropriate plans. You can reach us at (308) 436-5038.
However, as we’ve said before, one of the best ways to make sure that all of your questions and desires are taken care of is to make pre-arrangements. This is as simple as outlining your wishes to having all of the details written down and the financial arrangements prepaid. Please contact one of our staff at (308) 436-5038 to learn more about pre-arrangement.
What to Expect When You Arrive at the Funeral Home
One of the first things the funeral arranger will do is to provide you with our general price list. He or she will then guide you through the arrangement process, explaining how you can create a memorable personal celebration of your loved one's life. This is not a one-way conversation; we want to hear your ideas and thoughts, and use them as the building blocks for the arrangement process.
This process may include:
- Preparing and filing the official death certificate
- Scheduling the location, date and time of services or events
- Selecting a casket, urn or other items
- Preparing an obituary notice
- Scheduling vehicles
- Selecting pallbearers
You may also sign necessary authorizations or make arrangements to have them signed by the appropriate family members.
We’d like you to bring any photos, a favorite song, or memorabilia so that you and your funeral arranger can better discuss how you would like your loved one to be remembered. Having these things, and knowing their favorite song or favorite gathering place – even their favorite activity – will help us create a truly fitting memorial service.
Our funeral arrangers will assist you in planning a loving tribute that captures the spirit of the person whose life you wish to honor. To learn more about personalizing the service, please read the Honoring Life section of this Web site. The funeral arranger will discuss personalization with you during your arrangement conference.
The following checklist will help you remember what information about the decedent and items will be needed when meeting with a funeral arranger.
- Full legal name- Home address
- Social Security number
- Date of birth
- Place of birth
- Father's name
- Mother's maiden name
- Veteran's discharge papers (DD-214)
- Recent Photograph
- Highest education
- Place of burial (if applicable)
- Clergy name and phone number
- Survivors (name and relationship)
- Insurance policies (if applicable)
A staff member of Gering Memorial Chapel will be honored to explain all of the options available to you.